Stuart
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Non Participation and twisting the Standards - 2005/01/30 16:17
Fraters:
Keep in mind we are not other fraternities and you need to consider that their policies may not be in our best interest. Such as the limited membership. Are you seeking this for ones personal use or does it make sense in the big picture?
TKE has a policy that we are "Fraternity for Life". We are involved and contributing fraters (meet the standards) as active members until we graduate. That means as you become an older member or you have moved into a 'senior" role, you need to know what that truly means. Mentors hip, setting an example, and displaying leadership through your actions. Feeling someone owes you the option to become active is not a refection of such.
If not from a perspective of Leadership, then look at it from our Fraternity Requirements. This decision is not an option for a chapter and you will probably find your financial and insurance a mess. I local chapter cannot decide to just forgo the "BlackBook".
TKE BlackBook Article VI .. Page 11 Membership. Read this over..it defines the definitions of Active and Inactive, and what Alumni Status is.. Chapter XV - Candidates.. Page 31 Sec 6 Privileges of Membership Article XII Emblems and Insignia.. Page 15 Sec 2. Badge Sec 7. Ownership of Membership Badge and Certificate.
Be careful what directions you take. Focus on how to improve your chapter. If seniors are feeling they don't' want to participate in some of the events. Ask yourself. Are we providing interaction, brotherhood and program interests to all members? Do seniors want to only go to parties. What are they dealing with and how can the Chapter take those needs and put it into their programs, activities, and time.
Unwritten guidelines will eventually cause problems in your chapter. You are creating a 'culture" that will come back to bite you later. Ask Gamma Kappa (Indiana University) . They tried to use the 'senior" out unwritten rules. Then the juniors wanted it and then the chapter imploded with the exit of the sophomores. You can fill a house or expect all your leadership to come from your 1st year or second year membership. You are setting yourself up for failure. Ask any group who has not senior involvement, can't fill their chapter house and "life long" perspectives are being cut with the disconnect of the older active members.
If your an Older member? Did you really learn anything about our values, principles, or true servant leadership if you think your too busy to "lead by example"?
Good luck on your Lack of participation. when I am an new member and I see alumni and Seniors leading the way (ritual, service, participation) I see what I will become. If I don't see it.. guess what I will do?
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